May 28, 2008
*Cough*...Hmm

Remember that one time I had a second baby and then had to get rid of my cat and then I left you hanging for four months? Oh, that just happened? My mistake.

My shit has been broke forEVAH, so I finally took Cagey's advice and contacted my hosting company and they fixed me right up. I would have done it sooner, but it turns out grad school is HARD when you have a toddler and a newborn. It's probably for the best I was on a hiatus. The blog would just be one more thing I could find time to do instead of all the other crap I should actually be doing.

In any case, I feel like it would be ridiculous to try to catch you all up on the haps around here, but I'll give you some of the highlights.

  • Mimiclaus is a significantly more demanding baby than Alliclaus was. My one piece of advice to people considering children: Have the hard one first.
  • Mimiclaus came with me to class starting when she was ten days old. It was awesome. If by awesome you mean I was neither a great student nor a great parent during those hours. But the semester is over and I am thankful that we were able to work it out in the short term.
  • I bounced back really quickly healthwise after having Mimiclaus, but my God, the weight. Everyone said it would be harder to lose the baby weight the second time around. I really wanted to hit them in the face for saying it, but they weren't lying. Jerks.
  • We're heading back to San Diego in July for Sarah and Josue's wedding, and while I'm stoked to be there for their big day, I'm starting to think I never want to travel ever until my children are, I don't know, in high school? When does it become easy to travel with children?
  • We have a Wii!

Surely other things have happened in the four months I've been gone, but I can't really keep track of them. I'm a little sad I haven't done a lot more documenting of Mimiclaus' first months, but I'm sure it would have just been a bunch of worrying and hand-wringing about "Is she getting enough of my attention? Will she feel like her sister had a better deal?" Instead, I've spared you that and am back when I'm finally starting to overcome those fears.

I'm so glad to be back. Newest pictures at flickr.

Posted by Bethiclaus at May 28, 2008 10:37 AM
Comments

Welcome back!

Posted by: PunditMom at May 28, 2008 11:10 AM

Yay! Welcome back!

If it's any consolation, my second is much harder than my first was too.

Posted by: dee at May 28, 2008 11:27 AM

welcome back from blog abandonment!

i am sooo excited to see you again!

Posted by: andi at May 28, 2008 12:09 PM

welcome back from blog abandonment!

i am sooo excited to see you again!

Posted by: andi at May 28, 2008 12:09 PM

Welcome back!

Posted by: jodifur at May 28, 2008 12:12 PM

Oh, you did it backwards. My most demanding baby was first! So far, #3 is easiest.

Posted by: Heather at May 28, 2008 03:20 PM

One of my daycare parents told me the other day (she had the easy one first) that she believed that maybe it was some cruel joke that her first child was so wonderful because the second one was about to send her over the edge.

I had the difficult infant first, the easy infant (the one who slept 20 hours a day until he was 4 months old) came 22 months later. But girlfriend, that second one, the sleeping infant, the easy infant....he is 3 1/2 and still not potty trained. Has no intentions of potty training. Told me he would use the potty next year when he was big as his daddy....lovely eh?

Oh and the reason I started this here comment was to tell you that you have the most beautiful children evah!

Posted by: Jerri Ann at May 28, 2008 07:41 PM

Glad to see you back!

The girls are adorable! Thanks for sharing all you pictures.

Posted by: Jacquie at May 30, 2008 11:10 AM

Glad to see you back!

The girls are adorable! Thanks for sharing all you pictures.

Posted by: Jacquie at May 30, 2008 11:10 AM

Oops sorry for the stutter.

Posted by: Jacquie at May 30, 2008 11:13 AM

yah! i kept checking and checking...
i feel ya as far as taking the baby to class and all that nonsense...i GREATLY sympathize with the second child weight issue...i keep wondering what the cut off time is for claiming "baby weight"...SO GOOD to hear from you!!

Posted by: Heather Semple at May 30, 2008 11:17 PM

Welcome back! I can totally understand with all that has been going on that you have been rather busy. It is great to hear from you.

Posted by: Jenny at June 1, 2008 08:09 PM

I heart our wii. Helps with the weight loss!!

Glad to see you back!

Posted by: chelle at June 2, 2008 01:58 PM

Welcome back.

And um, NOT WHAT I WANTED TO HEAR ABOUT #2.

Crap.

Posted by: Isabel at June 3, 2008 01:22 PM

Oh, my gosh, your girls are beautiful. What a gorgeous-looking family you are!

And dude, I'm still about six pounds away from my pre-Kara weight. Me no likey hearing about weight problems after baby number 2

Posted by: Frema at June 4, 2008 09:05 PM

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