October 02, 2007
Premature

I was looking at a picture of myself from November 2005. I was pregnant with Alliclaus at 24. And while I've known that I have gray hair for a number of years, I had been trusting people when they said that I was the only one who could see it. But there it was. A streak of gray right in the front of my hair.

And in the last two years, the presence of that unwelcome gray hair has increased exponentially. It's no longer lingering only in that patch between my eyes. It has instead moved on to everywhere along my part, where it can make itself known more fully.

In spite of the fact that I had long since decided not to dye my grays (mostly due to my desire to not ever have to let it grow in - hello, skunk!), I bought a box of non-permanent dye and covered up those grays without mercy. It's really subtle - no one at my office even noticed a change - but without the gray streaks, my hair appears significantly darker. Additionally, the gray hairs are now bright red instead of white, but not really particularly dark brown as I think I would have preferred.

All in all, I'm glad this color change is temporary. I rather think my face seems very pale without some gray hair to lighten the dark blob on top of my head. And while I don't care for the idea that I look older than I am, I guess I must have grown somewhat attached to my gray hair. It's like free highlights for old people.

Besides, after eight years of not dying my hair, I'm rather attached to the feeling of healthy hair. And now my hair has that distinct feeling of recently dyed straw. Hopefully, some of that texture will fade along with the color.

Posted by Bethiclaus at October 2, 2007 09:17 AM
Comments

I feel your pain! I'm 26 and have sooo much gray hair, but I color it because I'm vain. And single. My younger sister has started turning gray, too, but she's not going to color hers, and in a way I'm jealous because she's never going to have to grow it out! Plus, it's so expensive and I'd rather pay someone than do it myself.

Posted by: JP at October 2, 2007 10:26 AM

dude! my sister the hairdresser said that demi perm. color is almost good for your hair! it basically just lies on top of your hair...not like you streaked it blonde (ahem, cough cough) and it has the texture of straw! i bet you look fabulicious!

Posted by: andi at October 2, 2007 10:53 AM

I've never been brave enough to dye my hair. Maybe someday I'll try it, although your post doesn't make me want to jump at it!

Posted by: Heather at October 2, 2007 08:10 PM

i'm all about the dye...
are you doing MA in Theo.?
please don't stop the fellow seminary student reviews...i look so forward to them...

Posted by: Heather at October 2, 2007 09:55 PM

I am too chickent to dye my hair. When I see those pesky little buggers I pull out the old tweezers and take my wrath out on them that way.

Posted by: Jacquie at October 2, 2007 11:49 PM

"It's like free highlights for old people."

You should so start a "Go Gray!" ad campaign!

I love dying my hair but stopped when Luke and I started trying to get pregnant. I miss my red undertones!

Posted by: Frema at October 3, 2007 04:06 PM