February 26, 2007
Dirty Diapers - The Great Equalizer: Little Earthquakes

rb.bmpA couple years ago, I found myself in a chick lit period. It was shortly after completing my undergraduate degree, and I loved spending mindless hours reading fluff that I wouldn't remember the next week. The stories began to bleed into one another.

But Jennifer Weiner's writing stood out for me. While many of her characters took the standard chick lit route through life, her character development seemed really organic to me.

I think writing dialogue well is one of the hardest things a writer can do, but I rarely found myself questioning the authenticity of the conversations between the mothers in Little Earthquakes.

Weiner's novel addressed a pretty wide range of issues facing new mothers, but did it in a way that confirmed her assertion that she shared stories with a number of other mothers while preparing herself to tell this story. From frightening medical examinations to babies falling off furniture to the disappointment when pumping forEVER results in a scant three ounces of breastmilk, I kept thinking, "Whoa! She totally reads my blog!"

But no. Even better. I'm not alone in these experiences. She's simply writing about what so many of us have been through.

And while that's not really news to me (after all - I have the bloggies), I have to imagine that there are lots of new moms who don't see themselves as part of a history of mothering where all women feel frustrated and frightened from time to time.

For these women, I think Weiner's book is a breath of fresh air. She talked a bit about how heated women can get about opposing parental philosophies. It seem impossible for people to civilly disagree. Her advice for mothers is that they ought to be "a litlle easier on themselves and a little more forgiving of each other."

I don't think the book changed my life or anything. But I really liked it. Thanks for the recommendation, Jenny!

Posted by Bethiclaus at February 26, 2007 10:21 PM
Comments

I've only read one book by Weiner, but I enjoyed it. Another good chick lit option is Good Grief by Lolly Winston, if you want to add some chick lit in 2008.

Posted by: bridget at February 27, 2007 09:01 AM

When anyone asks I always say I like her books but the truth is I really liked the first one I read, "Good in Bed" and after that i liked them less and less. I think it is because the style nor the conversation ever changes, to me it is always the same voice.

I can see where this book is a much different topic than the others so maybe I would like this one more.

Posted by: Sarah at February 27, 2007 09:02 AM

I'm glad you liked it! I have a few of her other books but haven't read them yet. A few girls and I actually just discussed Jennifer Weiner's books at our last book club meeting and we all decided that our favorite of hers was the one we read first and after the first read, the rest are a little more predictable.

Posted by: Jenny at March 9, 2007 02:54 PM